CLICHÉ: Don’t worry about what other people think about you. WHAT WE FORGET: ‘Don’t worry,’ does not equal ‘Ignore.’ The important part here is, ‘Don’t worry.’ And because we forget that, we get confused about what might be a good thing to do with what other people think about us. Don’t worry about other people …
CLICHÉ: Just go with the flow. WHAT WE FORGET: To notice the flow. Go with the flow. If you consciously don’t want to go with the flow, then you are choosing to go against the flow. If you’re conscious about it, then you have determined that the flow is not the way it should be. …
CLICHÉ: Step outside of your comfort zone. WHAT WE FORGET: Movement is different to location. By definition, comfort is a thing we want to provide for creatures that we love. So why would we want to take any creature outside of its comfort zone? Where does this cliché come from? It comes from the recognition …