A bad handling of a difficult situation shouldn’t be justified by the difficultness of the situation. It’s important to treat them as two separate events which should, if anything, be inversely correlated. That is to say, the more difficult the situation, the better it should be handled. But instead, a common occurrence seems to be: …
The instruction here is: ‘Don’t worry.’ Because we forget that, we get confused with what to do after receiving information from others. Don’t worry about other people think about you! OK. My co-worker thinks I’m an asshole.Don’t worry about it. My dad wants me to go to this college.Don’t worry about it. My financial advisor …
Go with the flow. If you consciously don’t want to go with the flow, then you are choosing to go against the flow. If you’re conscious about it, then you have determined that the flow is not the way it should be. If you are unwilling to go with the flow, and you want the …